My mother had twins born too early. Back then, they could do nothing but let them die. To this day, she regrets never naming them, holding them, or saying goodbye. They told her just not to look.
It was a very very long time ago and since she had three children that lived. She said she would not have been the mother she is without that experience.
It could very well be that it consoled you both ….
Names are very powerful … perhaps it’s just fanciful on my part, but, I’d like to believe that by naming him, you were tied together, and his name will be the most sacred thing you possess.
My mother had twins born too early. Back then, they could do nothing but let them die. To this day, she regrets never naming them, holding them, or saying goodbye. They told her just not to look.
that’s so sad
my heart goes out
to your mother
It was a very very long time ago and since she had three children that lived. She said she would not have been the mother she is without that experience.
He will always be a life—line. {{{hugs}}} Kozo
he’s given me
inexplicable connections
~
understanding
touching piece. thank you for sharing…
thanks
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for reading
commenting
It could very well be that it consoled you both ….
Names are very powerful … perhaps it’s just fanciful on my part, but, I’d like to believe that by naming him, you were tied together, and his name will be the most sacred thing you possess.
his name
forever
etched
on my heart
I dont know how you and your lovely wife are coping with this, but i wish you both all the strength in the world.
deep
commitment
to
love
~
always surprises
Such sadness. Love will get you through. Sorry for your loss.
Thank you
~
Continuing to breathe out
all my love
Damn!!
Powerful piece.
Thank you
~
for reading
for commenting
thinking of you…..
Thank you
~
Breathing out
Compassion
to you
to everyone
everyone –
perhaps –
learns grief
…
differently.
Best wishes.
Thank you
for your kindness